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Yes…Looks Matter

March 3rd, 2010 by Will Nesbitt Leave a comment Go to comments

It has been said that looks shouldn’t matter when it comes to choosing a mate.  Well, I disagree.  No, let me rephrase that…I STRONGLY disagree. I believe that looks are the first (and by far the most important) things you should look for and expect from someone you hope to spend the rest of your life with.  I mean, why waste your time with anyone who doesn’t want to look their best for you, right?  Right!

So, by now you’re probably wondering what should you look for?  Well, there are so many looks to choose from. But, the ones I feel are most important are:

Someone who LOOKS for the good in all things.

Someone who LOOKS at you with a smile and love in their eyes.

Someone who LOOKS beneath the surface to see your true essence.

Someone who LOOKS at the intentions and heart of your actions.

Someone who LOOKS for ways to help make your life a little bit brighter.

Someone who LOOKS for the best in you even when you or others can’t or refuse to.

Someone who LOOKS forward to seeing you each day.

And most importantly, someone who LOOKS to God for inspiration and guidance.

Physical attractiveness is fine. Nothing wrong with that. Just be sure that as you’re looking for someone with looks that can kill, they also have LOOKS that can heal.


What pleases the eye is fine, but not always what they seem
Yet, when it comes to what’s inside, LOOKS are everything.

  1. brownsugah
    March 3rd, 2010 at 23:43 | #1

    Luv it!!

  2. ontimealways.brown5
    March 4th, 2010 at 03:30 | #2

    Really Nice… For me the hardest to find are “Someone who LOOKS beneath the surface to see your true essence.”, “Someone who LOOKS for the best in you even when you or others can’t or refuse to.” and “Someone who LOOKS for the good in all things.”

    Thanks for sharing 🙂

  3. Alisia
    March 4th, 2010 at 08:30 | #3

    I absoulutely LOVE this. Well said. This was wonderful!!!

  4. Kimberly
    March 4th, 2010 at 10:23 | #4

    Nice, well put!

  5. Love Jones
    March 4th, 2010 at 12:47 | #5

    Kudos! I absolutely agree with all points.

  6. March 9th, 2010 at 19:40 | #6

    Short, to the point, and well-put! The Holy Spirit will guide you to see past those physical LOOKS to the spiritual LOOKS that matter–like the ones you describe.

  7. December 28th, 2011 at 17:31 | #7

    Well said, Will!

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