Does Guilt Stand in the Way of Your Success?
Are you one of those individuals who carry guilt from past mistakes? Have you allowed yourself to believe and accept the idea that it is necessary for you to harbour it so as to feel redeemed for your past transgressions, so that you can learn from your past or so that you can become a better human being? Well if you secretly wished that you could simply get rid of it and forget that those mistakes ever happened then you may be heartened to know that they can.
Let me give you an experience here that will significantly help you appreciate what I’m talking about.
Let’s say it was true that guilt is necessary for one to feel redeemed. Then that would also imply that by carrying it long enough one would expect redemption. So if one was expecting it how would this supposedly make them feel?
Well perhaps a sense of relief, unburdened, optimistic, energized, contented, peaceful, and good about one’s self. Is this however how it feels to carry the guilt? Absolutely not.
Guilt feels more like self punishment, bad about one’s self, a sense of dread, like a failure, defective or like there is something wrong with them, unworthy, undeserving, pessimistic and so on. I think you readily recognize that this is a life depleting experience.
So why do you continue to believe that guilt is in anyway useful to you, as the analysis above seems to suggest? Well simply because you choose to lie to yourself about the supposed benefits of feeling guilty.
Do you want to stop lying to yourself about this? If so place one hand over your Heart and simply affirm this to yourself and then notice how you feel. I’m sure there will be a welcomed sense of relief.
You see, that guilt is due to the negative memory of those mistakes. Wouldn’t it simply be better to erase it and hence dispense with the guilt altogether? Sound too easy? Well actually it is easy.
To learn more about by erasing negative life depleting memories kindly visit the web site below where you can also request a free introductory telephone consultation.
Nick Arrizza MD is the developer of the Mind Resonance Process® (MRP) that powerfully and permanently erases negative memories. To learn more about MRP, experience a free 1 hour telephone consultation or to listen to a pre-recorded internet radio program on it visit the web links below
He is a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author, Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator who lives in Toronto, Canada. He is also on Faculty at Akamai University in Hawaii. He is the CEO and Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc
Web Site: http://www.telecoaching4u.com or contact me at: [mailto:drnick@telecoaching4u.com]drnick@telecoaching4u.com
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